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I'm New... Just want to know I'm not alone...

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2018 Dec - Took a life threatening haemorrhage from the abdomen as I lost all my blood in the process, yet I'm still weak in my arms and legs, strength wise. Whenever I see a doctor I'm always asking them "should I still be this weak?" and they say "Yes." They don't even look surprised I'm still weak as they explain that my body has been through a huge ordeal as I was close to death as 2 teams saved my life.

Has anyone experienced this, because it would be nice to speak to someone who has been through it. As it would assure me that I will get my strength back in time.

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wobblybeeAdministratorPioneer

😕 I’ve never experienced this myself, but I realise it must leave you feeling exhausted. Have you had to have iron intravenously 🤔 Type ‘blood’ in the searchbox (above left), to see links to other post that may be helpful.

‘Because iron, which is required to produce red blood cells, is lost as a result of bleeding, most people who have anemia due to bleeding need to take iron supplements, usually tablets, for several months. Sometimes they are given iron intravenously’.

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to wobblybee

I was given iron pills long after I came out of the hospital as I didn't know how severely anaemic I was till my own doctor wanted an iron blood test. So I was put on to iron pills for months until one doctor told me to come off them which I did. I can't help but wonder at times if I should ask my doctor if I should go back on it.

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wobblybeeAdministratorPioneer in reply to Lotus-Blossom

🤔If you haven’t been seen for a while by your Specialist or GP, it seems reasonable to ask for an appointment, discussion and possibly blood tests would give you peace of mind.

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to wobblybee

Thanks I will definitely get onto it for peace of mind. Thanks.

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Tracey0101 in reply to wobblybee

I lost almost all my blood many years ago and I was put on iron tablets for a long time and I felt very weak and exhausted for a long time but I did get stronger and better in time just give your body time to heal its been through so much and it needs you to give time to your body just be patient with your body and have compassion with your body and love you. Take care of yourself you need it and deserve it and give yourself love and take each day at a time you can't rush yourself so be gentle to you and think happy thoughts and don't push yourself too much you will heal in time. God is a great healer and I don't know if you believe in God but there is power in prayer that there times when God heals and sometimes he doesn't heal we don't know all the answers but we know that God gives us miracles. I have come a long way from where I was. I have had so many miracles and answered prayers that doesn't mean that I don't still not struggle because I am in horrendous pain each moment 24/7 and its really awful and hard and difficult. I am still waiting to see a Neurologist for a diagnosis of FND and I have a blood test for Sjogrens syndrome 17th May this Friday. I already have fybromyagia osteoarthritis reynards sciatica Cerebral palsy I have cornea distrophy hearing problems EDS hypermobility and caterats and I have a bad groin on my left side at the moment and I have autism adhd and learning disabilities and ptsd psychosis depression and anxiety disorder and maybe more that I haven't had diagnosis yet for. Just keeps adding to having and getting but that's life we go through these symptoms and conditions and illnesses but we get through each day.

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wobblybeeAdministratorPioneer in reply to Tracey0101

I’m so sorry..being diagnosed with multiple conditions, combined with lack of understanding…must be overwhelming.

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Tracey0101 in reply to wobblybee

Very overwhelming and thanks because it's very hard and I also have bipolar it's very overwhelming and difficult because even though some of my symptoms haven't yet been diagnosed and what my doctor has said that it doesn't mean that I don't have the conditions it's just that I didn't reach the criteria for the diagnosis but they said that I have still got the symptoms of those conditions so she Said we still have to be aware of my symptoms even though they didn't fit for a diagnosis for certain conditions I have still got the symptoms for them.

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wobblybeeAdministratorPioneer in reply to Tracey0101

After many stressful years of coping with increasing Vestibular issues….I was finally diagnosed with Cerebellar Ataxia. This effects far more than basic balance.

It turned out ….that wasn’t the end of my ‘journey’.

There are NUMEROUS types..some are genetic..all are degenerative…and genetic testing doesn’t always find a link.

Neurological ‘conditions’….can often be very difficult to diagnose accurately, symptoms can ‘overlap’…or mimic. Testing needs to be very specific.

🤔 Currently..I’m waiting for results of Whole Genome Sequencing…DNA is screened to find links. So 🤞

Cooper27 profile image
Cooper27

I don't have personal experience of this but it sounds pretty traumatic on your body. I can understand you would be frustrated to still feel weak so long after.

The thing that comes to my mind is nutrient deficiencies. I've had high iron in the past, and have donated blood in an attempt to bring my levels down again. My ferritin levels dropped by 1/3 after giving just 1pt.

I imagine medications you had to take after will have also reduced your ability to absorb nutrients from your food too.

I'm obviously not an expert here, but I would want to investigate what deficiencies can cause weakness, TEST to check your own levels, and supplement if you find any of your results are low. Don't supplement without testing.

You can test via the likes of Medichecks, Blue Horizons, Thriva.

Sorry I don't have any other advice, I hope you improve soon!

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to Cooper27

Thanks. When my doctor contacts me again I will consider bringing it up to her as I have to watch what I take because of my underactive thyroid. Thanks for your kind words.

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Cooper27 in reply to Lotus-Blossom

This could also be relevant - your thyroid could be contributing to weakness.

Are you in England? As your surgery is supposed to make test results available online. Your surgery should test ferritin, B12, vitamin D and folate as standard if you have thyroid issues. If you can get a hold of them, then share your results on the Thyroid UK part of the site and people will be able to suggest how to supplement safely around your thyroid medication :)

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to Cooper27

I'm in Scotland. You have given me something to talk about with my doctor as I will definitely bring it up with her. Even though she says she's not surprised I'm still this weak. I will still bring it up as it wouldn't hurt to ask her. Thanks.

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Cooper27 in reply to Lotus-Blossom

We don't have the same online access here in Scotland, but you are entitled to copies of your test results under data protection laws, so do ask :) they sometimes say no, but you have a legal right.

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to Cooper27

Thanks for your reply. I will definitely get on to it.

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Dna4christ

Hey there. I think it can take some time to recover after a traumatic event. Many years ago, I lost so much blood where my blood pressure dropped to 66/33. I lost consciousness and I almost died from septic shock- pretty much saw nothing but spots before I passed out (also kept vomiting and had severe leg cramps from insufficient blood flow). I think they gave me 4 packs of blood transfusion to get me up and running (not enough to not be anemic though). Very scary and took a lot of time to recover. Please take it nice and slow. Hopefully, you will get your strength back soon. Meantime, take care of yourself!

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Lotus-Blossom in reply to Dna4christ

I will. Thanks for the kind words of encouragement.

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Methane

Hi why did you haemorrhage?

I have suspected inflammation and lost a lot of blood just once, been feeling so weak for over 3 months, have colonoscopy booked. Dr just seems to leave me! Maybe ask to be referred to hospital for another opinion. Don’t put up with just being left suffering, good luck x

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