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Just wondering if anyone's heard how Valentina, and her boyfriend Dan are doing? (and Olive, of course) ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ

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BeKind28- profile image
BeKind28-

Hello :-)

Yes I have been thinking the same and maybe should have messaged her but been distracted with one thing and another

If you go on her profile you will see Message and you can ask her and I am sure she will reply :-) x

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to BeKind28-

Thank you BeKind - that's a good idea ๐Ÿค—

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BeKind28- in reply to Pembrokeshirelass

:-) x

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Cat04

As I understand it Valentina98 had questions about why she was posting non-heart related posts on the BHF forum so she stopped posting updates.Hopefully as I've tagged her she'll let everyone know how things are progressing

Hugs & love V, D & O xx

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JeremiahObadiah in reply to Cat04

Sorry if there has been any inconsiderate /heartless treatment of a young person with a heart condition in need of support whilst having a very difficult time in their life.

Much love to her and hoping there has been good news for them all. X

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BeKind28- in reply to Cat04

Hello :-)

O goodness I am sorry to hear that

I shall say no more or I will get into trouble to :-) x

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JeremiahObadiah in reply to BeKind28-

โ˜บ๏ธ x

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to Cat04

Thank you Cat04 ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Digger0

I am in touch with her via DM. I'm sure she won't mind me telling you that Dan is home and seems to be doing well. Olive is fine xx

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Handel in reply to Digger0

Many thanks Digger. Love and hugs. Jan xxx

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MadBunny in reply to Digger0

Thank you for the update.

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to Digger0

Thank you for that Digger0 ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Deejay62

Sheโ€™s been going on another site because of his brain issues.

Every now and again I get alerts, because we follow each other.

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to Deejay62

Ok, thank you for that update DeeJay62 ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Valentina98

Hey Sorry I haven't updated you. As Cat said I had some people asking why I posted on the forum when Dan's issue wasn't heart related.

Dan was in an induced coma for a couple of days, as he kept having seizures post operation. It's quite common after that type of operation. Once he was out of the coma. His moods were a bit up and down again that's normal after being in an induced coma. He was put on anti depressants to help control his mood, a low dose just to stabilise them.

He was discharged on Tuesday, because of his moods and we weren't sure if he was going to kick out at night I slept in the spare room for a couple of days, but he has been very settled so I'm back in the same bed now. We popped out on Thursday to vote and he enjoyed the fresh air. But was very tired after.

I'm doing okay, I didn't visit him every day while he was in hospital as I was getting tired and emotional. I had a bit of a scare, I noticed a brown discharge but I called the out of hours GP and they got a midwife sent out. Who reassured me everything was okay, but to contact them if I have any pain or it goes red. So far everything is fine. Olive is kicking away I've definitely got a little footballer in me.

I think that's everything.

V, Dan and Olive x

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BeKind28- in reply to Valentina98

Hello :-)

This is good news in a way sounds like Dan is on the right road now and do not worry about the discharge this can be quite common just call the midwife if it happens again

Glad to see your update and you take care :-) x

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Valentina98 in reply to BeKind28-

Yeah the midwife said it was not normal, I think it was just the shock off seeing it, it made me worry.

We're currently sitting in the garden enjoying the sun.

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BeKind28- in reply to Valentina98

Hello :-)

I am not getting noted I have replies the last 2 days on here not sure why I have to try and remember to keep looking

Yes it is a shame they do not tell you these things can happen before they do would stop us going in a panic if they did

Enjoy the weather it is nice and will do you both good sitting out and relaxing :-) x

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Handel in reply to Valentina98

Hi V. Glad to hear you, Dan and Olive are doing well. Thinking of you all. Love and hugs. Jan xxxx

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to Valentina98

Hi Valentina98I'm so pleased to hear that you, Dan and Olive are all doing so well ๐Ÿ˜. Thank you so much for the update ๐Ÿคฉ. Hopefully now some rest in the sunshine will do you all good โ˜€๏ธ Take care my lovely x

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Valentina98 in reply to Pembrokeshirelass

You can always DM if I don't update โ˜บ๏ธ

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Pembrokeshirelass in reply to Valentina98

Ok - thank you ๐Ÿค—